As a person who was there and had to deal with this allow me to shed some light on this.( please note, Im very sorry for what I am about to do.) AND thank everyone for the patience and understanding.
Stellria, was the "Garb Hearld" who was fighting on the field. In the middle of a game she left the field, grabed a tunic, went back on the field and started yelling about people about their garb.( please refer to the beginning of this thread to understand the garb stff) And doning a hearlds tunic, in situations like this, it could have waited tell the battle was over to resolve this issue with the head hearld on the field and maybe his unit commander.
One of my fighters, the guy with the hockey mask, was "out of garb" because of his blue jeans. The Head Hearld didnt mind the hocky mask, but did bring out the border line issues with it.
Stellaria, then told Yari, to "put him out of the game, anyway you see fit." Yari then nocked him into the barbed fence twice, then grabed the mask and threw it over the fence.
Now Yari, was more then happy to apolgize, he even did and removed himself from fighting for a while, however, Stellaria didnt want to apolgize and when she did, it was piss pour at best. We even talked to her about this stating,"if you wanna check everyone garbs, grab your tunic and lets do this now." To which she responed, "no, im gonna go fight."
This could have been handeled MANY MANY other ways that could have avoided all this nonsince. But the attitude and position on this makes many wonder, what the hell.?!? Everyone needs to be garbed yes. A hockey mask isnt garb, but is borderline saftey equipment. We are adults this SHOULD have been handeled better. The level of improtance is SAFTEY, PLAYABILITY, REALISIM. By this, Garb is the last thing, and safety is first. But voilence as a answer?!? No, it is never a answer.
Its a little frustating that the main issue this was over, was even dealing with his blue jeans...